Think you're sexually incompatible?

Take this quiz before you panic.

If it feels like you and your partner are sexually incompatible (and like your drives are on completely different planets) I have some good news.

You're probably NOT incompatible. You just have different Desire Types.

I'm Erinn, your favorite Sex Therapist, and I've seen this exact scenario hundreds of times.

One partner's ready to go at the drop of a hat, the other needs time and connection. One initiates constantly, the other is rarely 'in the mood.' Sound familiar?

This 2-minute quiz will reveal your unique Desire Type and give you the roadmap to make sex feel easier and more fun for both of you.

Let's do this!

What are your favorite vibes for getting things started in the bedroom? *

Vibe? I don’t need no vibes! I’m just ready to go.

A little kissing and playing, then I’m eager to get down to business.

I like to take my time so I need it to be pressure-free and relaxed.

I love the build up, the anticipation, the teasing. Honestly the slower the better.

Which of the following sounds more like your sex drive: *

It goes from nada to a raging fire pretty quick.

It’s more of a slow burn. It needs to be stoked and fanned for the flames to grow.

How important is foreplay for you to get in the mood? *

Absolutely essential or I’m not into it.

I need it, and usually want more than I get.

Eh I could take it or leave it.

Don’t need it. I’m basically already in the mood now.

Do you feel like it takes you longer to get in the mood than your partner? *

Yes, it usually takes me longer

No, I’m usually in the mood first

What best describes how you feel about this statement: I need time to get aroused *

Nah, my motor’s quick to turn on

Sometimes, but it’s pretty easy for me to get into it

For sure and this is essential if I’m going to enjoy it and get into it

Yes and this stresses me out because I feel like I take too long to get warmed up

How often do you initiate sex? *

All the time. I usually take the lead.

Often but I wish my partner would initiate more.

Rarely because I’m not in the mood very often.

Omg never. I’m sweating just thinking about initiating.

Does your sex drive tend to feel like it’s turned “off” often? *

For sure, it feels super elusive.

Yeah, even when things are going well, I’m rarely in the mood.

Sometimes, but it still shows up pretty easily.

Nah, that baby’s locked and loaded most of the time.

How would you feel if you walked in the bedroom and your partner was naked on the bed giving you sexy eyes & covered in rose petals like some classic movie scene? *

My clothes are already off and I’m halfway to the bed.

Oh wow fun, let me run through the shower and I’m in!

Love the thought buuuut I’m not in the mood right now.

Omg are you kidding, it’s a Tuesday. No way.

When your partner tries to come onto you does it spark your interest? *

No, because I’m rarely in the mood when they do that.

Hell yes, I love that.

When your partner initiates, do you sometimes feel hesitant at first because you’re not in the mood but end up enjoying yourself more once things get going? *

Nah, I’m usually interested from the get-go.

OMG yes! Even if I’m not really into it at first, it usually gets more enjoyable as we go.

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